Core service

Cultural intelligence.

One-to-one advice.

It starts with a conversation about what you need, and what you think you need. From there, the advice is shaped entirely around you: the people you deal with, the cities you work in and the outcome you want. Whether you are preparing for a high-stakes meeting, rebuilding a stalled relationship or leading in the region for the first time, you have a trusted, confidential adviser in your corner for as long as it is useful.

Solo practitioners and small teams.

Running a substantial business on your own, or with a small team, means every Middle East relationship matters and there is rarely a colleague to sense-check your approach. I work as your discreet sounding board, offering the same calibre of cultural and relationship advice that large organisations rely on, shaped around your clients, your deals and your schedule. For small client-facing teams, workshops and tailored packages give everyone the confidence to build trust and win business across the region.

Briefings and talks.

Before a visit, a negotiation or a new project, a focused briefing gives you and your team a clear understanding of the people, the customs and the risks you are likely to meet, so you arrive prepared and make the right impression from the first handshake. For teams, trade associations and chambers of commerce, I deliver engaging talks drawn from years of experience on the ground, with real stories and practical lessons your audience can use immediately.

Culturally sensitive documents and communications.

A review of your emails, letters, reports and internal documents, so the wording is culturally right. Much British and European business writing is direct, brief and literal, what the anthropologist Edward T. Hall called low-context, while many readers in the region read more between the lines. Individuals vary, but a blunt sentence can come across as rude, an idiom may not travel, and an innocent phrase can be unintentionally sensitive. The aim is simply to make sure nothing you write is ambiguous or causes offence by mistake.

Relocating to the Middle East.

Having lived and worked in the region myself, I know first-hand what it is like to move to a new country, and I bring a rare perspective that combines a clear view of the security and risk picture, practical cultural advice, and insight from my trusted network of colleagues living and working across the region. You arrive knowing what daily life is really like. Find out more

Multinational team and office dynamics.

Leading a mixed team means understanding several overlapping cultures: those of the host country, the organisation and the profession, alongside the national, ethnic, religious and social backgrounds of individual colleagues. These influences can shape how people understand authority, communicate disagreement, build trust and work together, but they do not affect everyone in the same way.

MERCAG teaches managers how to recognise these differences without making assumptions about individuals. Through cultural intelligence, practical advice and mentoring, I help UK managers working with the Middle East understand office dynamics, navigate religious observance and different working expectations, and build personal relationships within their teams, including when leading from afar.

The aim is to break down social and professional barriers so colleagues can communicate openly, resolve misunderstandings and work effectively together.

Sessions and company workshops can be delivered online through Teams, Zoom or your preferred platform, or in person wherever you need me.

Topics

Start with the question you have.

Each of these pages goes deeper than the homepage can. Choose the one that matches what you need, or book a call and we will start from there.

Doing business in the Middle East

Building personal relationships, etiquette and trust across the region, in person and from the UK. Find out more

Wasta and gatekeepers

What these networks are, why they can stall a deal, and how to keep your own conduct transparent. Find out more

Women in Middle East business

Practical, personal preparation for women executives and professionals doing business in the region. Find out more

What we cover.

Status, Respect and Reciprocity. Hierarchy and seniority shape nearly every interaction in the region, and they often matter more than job titles on a business card. We look at how age, tenure, reputation and social position signal authority, why hospitality is a point of pride for your hosts, and how mutual respect builds the unwritten trust that business depends on. Clients learn to read these signals early and to avoid treating a warm welcome as a commitment.
Decision-Making Networks. Formal org charts rarely show who really decides. We look at how consultation, trusted advisers, senior figures and long-standing relationships shape outcomes. It explains why a meeting may be attended by someone with no final say, why a yes in the room can be provisional, and how to identify who must be consulted and why, so that proposals reach the people whose agreement counts.
Influence Networks (Wasta) and Gatekeepers. Wasta is the use of personal connections to get things done, and gatekeepers control access to decision-makers. We look at how these networks work in practice, the signs that an approach is going nowhere, and how to engage with them transparently and ethically. Clients learn to distinguish legitimate introductions and endorsements from favouritism, and from requests that cross into corruption, and how to protect their integrity when pressure to participate arises. Read more about wasta and gatekeepers
Regional and City Context. The Gulf and the Levant are not uniform, and each city has its own pace and formality. We show clients how to adjust their approach to each setting without relying on stereotypes. Read more about doing business in the Middle East
Cross-Cultural Communication. Language carries much of the culture. We cover Arabic greetings and common phrases, the use of honorifics and titles, and the indirectness that often softens disagreement or refusal. Clients learn to hear what is meant as well as what is said, to avoid reading politeness as agreement, and to phrase requests and feedback in ways that protect face for everyone involved.
Building Relationships at a Distance. Much business now happens by phone, video and email, and the norms are still shaped by face-to-face culture. We cover call and video etiquette, the tone of written messages, reasonable response times, and the follow-up that signals sincerity. It also addresses how to keep a relationship warm between visits, so that distance does not read as disinterest.
In-Person Protocol. Greetings, hospitality, seating, the order of introductions and the structure of a meeting all carry meaning. We walk through what to expect when you are a guest and when you are the host, how to dress appropriately for different settings, and how the rhythm of the working day changes during Ramadan and around prayer times. Clients practise reading the room so that they can follow the lead of their hosts.
Navigating Sensitive Topics. During periods of regional tension, geopolitical subjects can arise unexpectedly in meetings, over meals and in casual conversation. We help clients prepare for these moments, understand the sensitivities on different sides, and respond in ways that are respectful and professional. It emphasises listening before responding, knowing when to steer conversation elsewhere, and recognising the difference between a personal view and the expectations of a workplace.
Daily Life and Dress. Respect is most often shown in small, everyday choices: what to wear, how to behave at social gatherings and how to be a good neighbour.

Current work · An office in the Gulf

The culture onion.

The Dutch social psychologist Geert Hofstede described culture as an onion. The outer layers are what you see first, such as symbols, heroes and rituals, and at the core are the deeply held values that shape how people think and behave.

Every workplace in the Gulf has layers of its own. There is the business culture of the region, the culture of the office itself and the national cultures each person brings with them.

In the office where I am working now, colleagues from India, Bangladesh, Syria, Italy, the Gulf and beyond work side by side. Each group brings its own strengths, habits and expectations. My role is to help them understand one another and work together, so that those different cultures form a single cultural ecosystem in which everyone can contribute and the whole team moves forward.

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Small firms, big contracts

Small UK businesses selling to the Middle East.

Not every Middle East deal is signed in a boardroom in Riyadh or Dubai. Many start in a workshop somewhere in the UK. Small British businesses, from engineering firms to manufacturers, make parts and goods of every kind, from defence components to industrial equipment, that are shipped out to the region every day.

The engineering is the easy part. The first call with a buyer in the region can be the hard part. You may hear “Inshallah”, which means “God willing”. It is a sincere expression of hope and faith that the future rests with God, and it is part of everyday speech across the region. It is not a code for yes or no. Depending on the context, it can sit alongside a firm intention, or signal that something depends on circumstances. The meaning comes from the conversation around it, so I help you listen for that context and ask the right follow-up questions, rather than guessing.

I help small businesses prepare for those calls and meetings, understand the language and build the relationship that keeps the orders coming. You do not need a big budget or a big team, just someone who has been there.

Reverse cultural advice

Clients from the region heading West.

MERCAG is not only about culture for people going to the Middle East. It also advises clients from the region on Western culture.

Wherever I have worked, younger colleagues from the region have come to me for advice on planning trips to the UK, Europe or America: what to expect, what is acceptable and how to behave. Many of them have been young Lebanese, but they have come from many countries. That only happens through trust.

If you are from the Middle East and planning a trip to the UK, Europe or America, I can help you understand what to expect.

Add-on

Geopolitical, crisis and security risk advice.

For clients who need it, MERCAG adds risk advice drawn from senior security and crisis management roles at country and regional level.

Geopolitical analysis and briefings on regional tensions.
Crisis management advice and planning.
Security and travel risk advice.

Risk and cultural advice, together

Country, regional and remote-area risk, read through the local culture. Find out more

Geopolitical analysis

Understanding the bigger picture.

Events in the Middle East can change quickly, and decisions made in one capital can affect projects, contracts and people across the region. Headlines rarely tell you what a development means for your own business.

MERCAG provides clear, practical analysis of the political and security landscape in the countries where you operate. Briefings explain what is happening, why it matters and how it may unfold, so that you can plan ahead rather than react.

Country and regional briefings before a visit, a bid or a new project.
Ongoing updates during periods of regional tension.
Analysis of how events may affect your people, operations and partners.
Plain-English advice for boards and senior leaders, with no jargon.

How it works.

Discovery call. A call to talk about your situation.
Needs assessment. Your counterparts, sector, cities and goals.
Tailored proposal. A programme and fee agreed in writing.
Delivery. Sessions one-to-one or with your team.
Review. A look back, with follow-on support if you want it.

“The most important consequence of his advice was the reduction in the amount of effort spent chasing business that was never going to happen.”

Commercial Director and Country Manager, Saudi Arabia (2023).

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Cultural intelligence for doing business in the Middle East.